898 - Happy for Now
Friends: Are you happy for a minute? Joyous for eternity? Let’s ask a Christian high school economics class. See the column below. Blessings, Bob
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Spirituality Column #898
January 30,
2024
Common
Christianity / Uncommon Commentary
Happy
for Now
By
Bob Walters
“Rejoice
in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! – Philippians 4:4
I
put the simple, first assignment to my high school economics students: Write a
paragraph comparing/contrasting “happiness” and “joy.” Are they different?
Our
textbook’s introduction presents economics as the science of how and why people
make the choices they make. We have unlimited “wants” amid limited resources of
materials, time, health, wealth, intellect, space, etc. We have natural resources from the hand and
mind of God, and innumerable resources from the hand and mind of man.
How
does one decide what to do? We weigh what
makes us happy, secure, comfortable, and at peace while steering away from
fear, chaos, harm, death, and treachery.
Most of us lean toward love and away from hatred … as often as we can.
Since
I teach at a Christian high school rooted in the Bible (Mission Christian
Academy, Fishers, Indiana), I pointed out that “joy” comes up much more often
in scripture than does the word “happy.” The concordance in the back of my NIV
Bible lists dozens of citations for “joy,” with only four for “happy.” Is it just a translator’s choice of synonyms?
Or is there an actual difference worth investigating? Turns out, there is.
I
have 28 students in two classes.
Overall, the students came back with ‘happiness” being more of a
temporary emotion, and “joy” being a long-term way of life. Since they are just about all church kids, it
isn’t surprising that they see joy, as it is witnessed in the world, generally
through the eyes of Jesus. They can’t
help it. I love it.
One
student, writing a longer paragraph pointed to Philippians 4:4, quoted above,
about rejoicing always. Happiness, she noted,
is often circumstantial but we are called to joy and gratitude, [e.g.] “this
is the day that the Lord has made; therefore, I will rejoice and be glad in it.”
(Psalms 118:24). We spent both class periods discussing responses.
To
me, the most surprising information was from a student directly citing the Merriam
Webster Dictionary which had joy as the temporary emotion, and happiness as the
enduring way of life, just backwards from the Bible. But on quick evaluation, it
is also predictable. Merriam Webster is
a secular academic resource, not Christian wisdom.
I
was encouraged that almost all the students did the assignment, shared their
thoughts, and discussed them in both scriptural terms and by lived
experience.
What
I didn’t tell them before, but shared with them in class, was that over the
years I’ve written several pages worth of aphorisms and notes about joy and
happiness. The topic / comparison is a
particular favorite of mine. My mentor George Bebawi once pointed out that
happiness is not really encouraged in the Bible, but joy is. “Happiness is transient,” he said, “but joy
exists in Creation.” I love that line, and it got me thinking.
Happy
is about me, joy is about God. Happy is
now, joy is eternal. Happy is a symptom,
joy is a condition. Happy is a circumstance, joy is a worldview. Happy speaks
to comfort; joy speaks to love. Joy, I
believe, looks like peace and acts like confidence with a generous dose of
wisdom and love. Joy defeats hate; while
happiness is swallowed up by hatred. Our purest joy is facilitating the well-being
of others.
I
hear secular voices insist, “I deserve to be happy,” or express the notion that
personal happiness is the central mission, purpose, and goal of life. We all
want to be happy, and I want all people to be happy. But a loving relationship
with God through faith, trust, and truth in Jesus and the guiding light of the
Holy Spirit, is truly life’s goal.
And
that is God’s glory. Our joy in the Lord is our strength … now and
always.
Walters
(rlwcom@aol.com)
always knew joy existed, but couldn’t prove it until Jesus.