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Monday, January 17, 2022

792 - Life Change

 Spirituality Column #792

January 18, 2022

Common Christianity / Uncommon Commentary

Life Change

By Bob Walters

It dawned on me a few days ago that this month marks the 30th anniversary of the biggest and most welcome job move and life change of my professional career.

In January of 1992 I hired on as the public relations director at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway.  I’d worked in the media and in sponsor/team public relations in both Indy Cars and NASCAR auto racing in the late 1980s.  Coming back home to Indiana to work at the 500 was a job I’d been praying for, and it happened.

That job, in my eyes, was akin to working in religion and landing a spot in the Vatican.  I say “I’d been praying for” it, but it wasn’t like I was talking to Jesus back in those days.  I was praying for the IMS job the way a whole lot of people pray – without any recognizable relationship with God and purely for favor, whether for self or others.

I didn’t meet up with Jesus for another 10 years.

That job in 1992 was my central purpose in life.  I was married, our second son John was born that month – January 18, in fact, the date of this column … Happy 30th Birthday, John! – and it was joy upon joy to move back to Indiana after five years away in St. Louis and Albuquerque.  We were home, and I had the best job I could imagine.

Great times, those 12 seasons (1985-1996) working at the very top of American auto racing.  It would be a book-length yarn to tell in adequate detail, but not here.

That adventure for me ended with bumps and bruises amid the turmoil of the Indy Racing League vs CART battles through the latter 1990s.  Life changed again.

Instead of working and/or traveling literally dozens of weekends per year, I was home and got to truly know my sons Eric (now 34) and John.  I coached kid baseball, was a Cub Scout and Boy Scout leader and went camping, and helped out with the boys’ elementary school events.  I learned to have conversations with neighbors about subjects other than the 500 and auto racing. 

A few consulting gigs aside, my career in PR was basically over.  I’d felt I’d been dropped on my head, hard, leaving those heady days of high-profile motorsports, but I was learning, however slowly, that my life’s central purpose was being redirected.

As it turned out, because I was now home most evenings for dinner, I was sitting at the table when Eric asked – out of seeming nowhere – “How come we don’t go to church?”  That was August of 2001 – 20 years ago this past fall, if you’re counting.

My central purpose in life once was my career.  Then my central purpose in life was my kids.  Then through no expressed intent of my own – let’s be clear, I wasn’t looking for Jesus – we went to church one Sunday.  Guess who sat down next to me?

Yep, Jesus, who over the next several years introduced me in the Spirit to my new central purpose in life … doing what I could to glorify His Father God.

God’s most significant physical gift to me was time.  Time is part of the physical world, not the eternal world.  But I was gifted with time to learn, grow, write, teach, and understand the greatest central purpose of human life: loving Jesus to glorify God. 

My career didn’t teach me love; my boys did.  And Jesus put it to good use.

Walters (rlwcom@aol.com), because fast cars are still fun, provides this LINK of a Czech mogul driving a $3M Bugatti Chiron 260 mph on the Autobahn … for Jesus.  Also, 30 years ago was 1992; 30 years before that Walters was in second grade.

Monday, November 25, 2013

367 - Pride, Peace and Thanksgiving

Spirituality Column #367
November 26, 2013
Current in Carmel-Westfield-Noblesville-Fishers-Zionsville

Pride, Peace and Thanksgiving
By Bob Walters

I stopped being proud of my two sons about 12 years ago.  I decided to be thankful for them instead.
 
That shift in attitude and lexicon has not adversely affected either of them.  It has, however, had the positive, peaceful effect of sparing my close friends the “proud snorting” (Job 39:20) of me going on and on about how proud I am of my boys.
 
Now in their 20s, they are doing well and I am thankful.  The last thing I want to do is inflict my ego on their accomplishments and the first thing I want to avoid is an out-loud declaration of personal pride about anything.  Better in all cases – kids, career, business, athletics, religion, relatives, real estate, smart deals, dumb luck or whatever – to declare God-directed thanksgiving rather than to harbor personal pride.  Here’s why.
 
There are two kinds of pride in the Bible.  One is simple and obvious, and the other is complex and sublime.  One is the father of all sin, and the other is the mother of all love.  One is arrogance grounded in our worldly, fallen selves, and the other is confidence grounded in our faith and trust in Jesus Christ.
 
As to the first, prideful Satan (Genesis 3) tempted unfallen Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden with a proposition: Why should they not have the same knowledge as God?  When Adam and Eve used their God-given freedom to give themselves primacy over God’s promise, that was “The Fall,” the dawn of human pride: the chief of all sins.
 
The Bible’s second kind of pride is God-focused, internal, and unseen.  Hence, it was OK for the Apostle Paul to “take pride in his ministry” (Romans 5:12) and “in other followers of Christ” (2 Corinthians 7:4).  Deep pride in Christ, Paul explains, is necessary to “answer those who take pride in what is seen rather than what is in the heart” (2 Corinthians 5:12).  John plainly describes the difference: “… the pride of life comes not from the Father but from the world” (1 John 2:16).  In other words, the “seen” is the sinful world, and the “heart” is the love of God.
 
The first kind of pride is foolish, stubborn, and destructive, pulling life’s focus dangerously off of God and onto our own being.  The second reveals sacred focus and resolve in the divine love of Christ.  Hermeneutics aside, “I’m proud of …” – whatever – sounds grindingly self-serving.  It’s better to just continually, humbly, thank God because thanksgiving mutes pride, brings peace, and praises God.
 
They should have a holiday for that.
 
Walters (rlwcom@aol.com) is thankful for sons Eric and John, wife Pam, and the peace of trusting God’s faithfulness.  Happy Thanksgiving.

 

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