Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts
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Monday, June 10, 2013

343 - Patiently Growing in Christ

Spirituality Column #343
June 11, 2013
Current in Carmel–Westfield–Noblesville–Fishers–Zionsville

Patiently Growing in Christ
By Bob Walters

Faith in Christ may arrive in one’s heart suddenly and unexpectedly, and the impatience of addressing an immediate temporal human physical or spiritual need is often the hallmark of Christian action.

But considered patience, not unthinking rashness, is the key to Christian life, understanding and joy.

That’s because Christ is complete and we are not.

Christ offers us the lifelong continuum of an ever growing relationship that eclipses the inconveniences of the moment (see “light and momentary troubles,” 2 Corinthians 4:17) and stretches into the joyful, restful peace of eternity.  We can come upon our faith in a moment, spring into action the moment after that, and always know there is more Kingdom work to do and more about Christ to learn.  Anyone can “be a Christian” right now, but no one can live a Christian life all at once.  Would anyone ever say, “I’m a complete Christian”?  No.   We are, in this life, unfinished business.

The very end of the Gospel of John (21:25) says that if everything Jesus did was written down “the whole world would not have room for the books.”  That tells me not only that Jesus did a lot of stuff but that there is a lot more stuff – infinite and eternal stuff; stuff like loving God, loving others, and witnessing for Christ – for us to do as well.

So much to do and learn, in fact, that patience isn’t likely to be the first thing a Christian learns.

Lifelong Christians may or may not have the same frantic pacing as late-to-the-party believers like me, but they have the same sense of urgency of their faith.  It’s not the urgency of work for work’s sake, but the urgency of love for love’s sake.  And it is patience that ultimately provides the proper Christian perspective and witness of love.

The Bible plainly tells us that love is patient (1 Corinthians 13:4) and that love is a fruit of the spirit, along with peace, patience, kindness, etc. (Galatians 5:22).  Jesus’ love is seen not only in his sacrifice but in his relentless patience: he keeps coming after us.  The best way to demonstrate our Christ-like love is to exhibit patience instead of frustrations with the people, circumstance and things around us.

This is one of those lessons that, as a Christian, I am constantly learning and constantly failing at (see Romans 7:16-20; re: “doing what we know we shouldn’t”).  But when I do occasionally get it right, peace, joy and understanding come into focus.

That’s something worth growing toward.

Even if we never completely succeed, we can trust that Christ already has.

Walters (rlwcom@aol.com) has patience for, say, Christmas shopping but not for stop lights.  Go figure.
Monday, February 11, 2013

326 - Lazarus, Love, and Patience

Spirituality Column #326
February 12, 2013
Current in Carmel – Westfield – Noblesville – Fishers – Zionsville

Lazarus, Love, and Patience
By Bob Walters

Valentine’s Day is a great holiday to have in the middle of winter – the passionate warmth of love imprinted on our minds and bodies amid the frost and desolation of mid-February.
 
The great chapter about love in the Bible is generally considered to be Paul’s 1 Corinthians 13 in the New Testament, but it has nothing to do with the excitations of Valentine’s Day.  Paul is describing the divine love of Jesus Christ and the example it should be in our lives as Christians, not the roses and romance of modern culture.  And a central aspect of divine love, Paul teaches, is patience.
 
Theologian Kenneth Bailey offers fascinating insight on patience as the language of divine love in his truly excellent book Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes.  Bailey cites the lessons of patience in Jesus’ parable of Lazarus and the Rich Man (Luke 16:19-30), and amplifies them using Paul’s passage on love along with other familiar Bible stories.  Here is Bailey (pp 389-390):
 
“In his matchless definition of Christian love (agape), Paul lists characteristics that are found in such love (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).  The list begins with one form of patience (makrothymia in Greek) and ends with a second form of patience (hypomone).
 
Makrothymia is a composite word consisting of makran (far away) and thymos (anger).  As a single word makrothymia has to do with ‘putting one’s anger far away.’  This is the patience of the powerful who are able to wreck vengeance on their enemies but choose to be patient and refrain from doing so.  It is the patience of David standing over the sleeping body of Saul when Saul went to kill David (1 Samuel 26:6-25). … David’s aide urged him to kill his sleeping enemy.  But David exhibited makrothymia and stayed his hand.
 
“The other form of patience, hypomone, is also comprised of two Greek words.  The first is the preposition hypo (under).  The second is mone, which has to do with endurance.  The person with hypomone is willing to “remain under” great stress or suffering.  The primary biblical example of this virtue is Mary standing silently at the cross and choosing to not walk away.  … Lazarus exhibits both of these forms of patience.  In his earthly life … he was longsuffering and full of hypomone.  … At the side of Abraham (in heaven), he demonstrates makrothymia, he puts his anger far away.”
 
Divine love, then, is inextricably linked to merciful Christ-like patience, while Valentine’s-Day-type love is often marked by passionate human impatience.
 
May we have the Godly discernment and wisdom to know when those we love need our patience more than our passion.
 
Walters (rlwcom@aol.com) had no idea patience was this much of a virtue.  For Valentine's background, see "classic" column Valentine's Day for the Birds.

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