841 - Summing Up Christmas
Friends ... Christians hope the promise of Christmas adds up to year-round joy. See new column below ... and we’ll be back next year! Blessings, Bob
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Spirituality Column #841
December
27, 2022
Common
Christianity / Uncommon Commentary
Summing
Up Christmas
By
Bob Walters
“Your
Father who sees in secret will reward you.” – Jesus, Mathew 6:18
I
suppose I put up too many Christmas lights, and my wife Pam possibly bakes too
many Christmas cookies … not that we plan to make any changes going forward.
Our
neighbors, family, and friends – and co-workers, many of whom have become close
friends – notice and appreciate our yearly Christmas holiday behaviors. We have great fun expressing our joy in the
season; it is a joy in Christ and an easy outpouring of our faithful love for
Him … and Christian love for others.
I
think there is plenty of evidence that our Christmas celebrating is not a
matter of Pam and me coming out of a slumbering closet, awakening to our
mission with Jesus only at the commercially and culturally “acceptable”
Yuletide season. We are thankful for the
life we share, together, in Christ, and it’s a 24/7/365/Eternal fact of our
existence.
Stumbles? Yes (mainly me). Perfection? No (again, mainly me). We don’t keep count, and living our lives in
the forgiveness of Christ and forgiving with Christ provide peace, joy, and a
divine closeness of relationship other Christians understand. It’s a joy the secular Christmas crowd
glimpses faintly but largely can’t fathom.
Thankfulness is one thing; thankfulness for a life in Christ is an
entirely different ballgame, one where you don’t need to keep score and
couldn’t quantify or count points if you tried.
The
“true meaning of Christmas” is closer to that, i.e., not keeping score or
seeing, empirically, “what it all adds up to.” Giving with joy is its own reward.
Last
month on a warmish central Indiana Thanksgiving weekend afternoon (funny how
Christmas weekend arrived with sub-zero temperatures, blowing snow, and
whoo-boy windchills in the minus 30s), several of us, including our very
pleasant new neighbor lady across the street, were outside hanging Christmas
lights. When her husband arrived back from
wherever he had been, he surveyed his house and then ours and in a friendly way
shouted across the street, “Ah … competition!”
I
shouted back, cheerfully, “It’s not competition, it’s Christmas!” The lady agreed.
When
I delivered Pam’s customary, generous cache of assorted, hand-decorated Christmas
cookies to my many workmates, a kind lady sensing the enormity of effort Pam
put into baking them, asked me, “How much time does she spend on these?”
I
replied, with a broad smile, “It’s not time; it’s love.” What a satisfying answer.
As
we move past this “most wonderful time of the year” into our 2023 trip around
the sun, I want to remember this and every Christmas not in terms of “how much
time” or “how much money” or who gets the neighborhood Griswold Award for
excessive Christmas lights. Let’s store away
our Christmas gear, not the Christmas in our hearts.
Jesus
Christ – God coming to live among humanity to restore our relationship with the
good, loving, unsurprisable, and unerringly righteous God of Creation – is
truth for all time and love beyond all measurement. As an expression of God’s love, Jesus is our sure
hope. He isn’t here to “beat Satan,”
He’s here to show us how to love God and each other. Christmas isn’t the sum of
an equation, it’s a divine mystery of God’s love.
Whatever
we do at Christmas, it should be an unbridled expression of our love and God’s
love, not judgement of human effort or measurement of worldly transaction.
Believe
it when I say we are well aware – as are you – of the prideful, non-faith world
that cynically takes great commercial advantage of the Christmas season.
My
goal – our goal – is to take loving advantage of Jesus Christ all year long.
Walters
(rlwcom@aol.com)
suggests focusing on God’s love, not God’s rewards.