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Spirituality Column #841

December 27, 2022

Common Christianity / Uncommon Commentary

Summing Up Christmas

By Bob Walters

“Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” – Jesus, Mathew 6:18

I suppose I put up too many Christmas lights, and my wife Pam possibly bakes too many Christmas cookies … not that we plan to make any changes going forward.

Our neighbors, family, and friends – and co-workers, many of whom have become close friends – notice and appreciate our yearly Christmas holiday behaviors.  We have great fun expressing our joy in the season; it is a joy in Christ and an easy outpouring of our faithful love for Him … and Christian love for others.

I think there is plenty of evidence that our Christmas celebrating is not a matter of Pam and me coming out of a slumbering closet, awakening to our mission with Jesus only at the commercially and culturally “acceptable” Yuletide season.  We are thankful for the life we share, together, in Christ, and it’s a 24/7/365/Eternal fact of our existence.

Stumbles?  Yes (mainly me).  Perfection?  No (again, mainly me).  We don’t keep count, and living our lives in the forgiveness of Christ and forgiving with Christ provide peace, joy, and a divine closeness of relationship other Christians understand.  It’s a joy the secular Christmas crowd glimpses faintly but largely can’t fathom.  Thankfulness is one thing; thankfulness for a life in Christ is an entirely different ballgame, one where you don’t need to keep score and couldn’t quantify or count points if you tried.

The “true meaning of Christmas” is closer to that, i.e., not keeping score or seeing, empirically, “what it all adds up to.”  Giving with joy is its own reward.

Last month on a warmish central Indiana Thanksgiving weekend afternoon (funny how Christmas weekend arrived with sub-zero temperatures, blowing snow, and whoo-boy windchills in the minus 30s), several of us, including our very pleasant new neighbor lady across the street, were outside hanging Christmas lights.  When her husband arrived back from wherever he had been, he surveyed his house and then ours and in a friendly way shouted across the street, “Ah … competition!”

I shouted back, cheerfully, “It’s not competition, it’s Christmas!”  The lady agreed.

When I delivered Pam’s customary, generous cache of assorted, hand-decorated Christmas cookies to my many workmates, a kind lady sensing the enormity of effort Pam put into baking them, asked me, “How much time does she spend on these?”

I replied, with a broad smile, “It’s not time; it’s love.”  What a satisfying answer.

As we move past this “most wonderful time of the year” into our 2023 trip around the sun, I want to remember this and every Christmas not in terms of “how much time” or “how much money” or who gets the neighborhood Griswold Award for excessive Christmas lights.  Let’s store away our Christmas gear, not the Christmas in our hearts.

Jesus Christ – God coming to live among humanity to restore our relationship with the good, loving, unsurprisable, and unerringly righteous God of Creation – is truth for all time and love beyond all measurement.  As an expression of God’s love, Jesus is our sure hope.  He isn’t here to “beat Satan,” He’s here to show us how to love God and each other. Christmas isn’t the sum of an equation, it’s a divine mystery of God’s love.

Whatever we do at Christmas, it should be an unbridled expression of our love and God’s love, not judgement of human effort or measurement of worldly transaction.

Believe it when I say we are well aware – as are you – of the prideful, non-faith world that cynically takes great commercial advantage of the Christmas season.

My goal – our goal – is to take loving advantage of Jesus Christ all year long.

Walters (rlwcom@aol.com) suggests focusing on God’s love, not God’s rewards.